Gossip vs. Unresolved Hurt and Attachment Injury

Gossip vs unresolved hurt and attachment injury Often when you share how someone hurts you, you fear that you are slandering them and gossiping about them. Gossip is sharing stories that aren’t true about someone in order to fulfill your revenge against them. You are actively speaking ill will against them in order to hurt them. Unresolved hurt is sharing how an interaction with a person impacted you in a way that left you feeling rejected, abandoned, inadequate or alone. The intention of sharing is to alleviate your pain not to hurt that person. Sharing your injury helps you attune to your own unmet need in this relationship. Often we fear sharing our injuries from others for fear we are sinning against that person. Gossips goal is to cause the person pain. Sharing how they hurt you heals your inner pain. My thoughts on EFT Linda Goad LPC, NCC, ALPS